Domestic violence in New Jersey is not unheard of, but fortunately, there continues to be positive changes that enable more victims to seek the help they need. According to the New Jersey State Police (NJSP), there were 60,130 reported domestic violence offenses in 2018, which is less than the previous year and continues to decline. 

Even if there is a decline in the statistical trend, victims like you may not have access to the information they need to seek refuge and find justice. That is why we have a list of four practical tips for you. Take this as an opportunity to rise above and get the help you need.

Make sure you have a safe place to stay in


You need to prioritize your safety and well-being above all else to ensure that the abuser can be swiftly brought to justice. If you live with them, you need to leave immediately and seek refuge in a trusted friend or relative’s home. You can also contact 911 if you are in danger. Remember to do all you can to stay in a safe place until the abuser is dealt with accordingly. 


Secure all your assets 


You may have shared assets with the abuser, meaning you have to find ways to secure them. These could be valuable objects like fine jewelry, luxury clothing, and the like. You also may have children who also need protection from the abuser. Look for solutions with your trusted friends and family to store all your assets in a safe location. If your children are in danger, call 911 immediately. 


Ready your evidence 


You need to guarantee that your abuser is punished accordingly for what they did to you. The best way to do so is to prepare evidence, like text messages and voice recordings, that can help you make your case against your abuser. You may also have the work with local police or your lawyer to prepare testimonial evidence. That way, you can guarantee the success of your case and move on from this ordeal. 


Consider getting a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO)


In New Jersey, there are situations where you can request a TRO to guarantee your safety and your assets. For example, let’s say you want to take custody of your children because they live with the abuser. Your abuser may be preventing you through verbal threats and provoking you with a loaded firearm. This situation, among other similar cases, can grant you access to a TRO. 

To request a TRO, you need to contact the Supreme Court’s Family Part in your county. You can also contact 1-800-572-SAFE (7233). Remember that this may take around ten days, and there is a required hearing between you and the abuser before the court.

You can also seek further legal advice to ensure that your TRO and the criminal charges against your abuser are well-prepared to ensure your safety and well-being. Take the time to know your rights and the special provisions for you as a victim by visiting the information page on domestic violence by the NJSP. 



Facing domestic violence is a tough challenge, but fortunately, you now have access to the information you need to protect yourself. New Jersey also provides special provisions to ensure that you are accounted for and well-protected. Remember all the previously mentioned information, know your rights, and seek assistance immediately. 

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